Top of the day to you naira landers,
I know some of you will criticize me here for always bringing my marital issues here.
Well i believe we got lots of married responsible people here that might have gone through what i am facing through and may have one or two advice for me on how to navigate through my issues.
Some of you are unaware of my stories, i will urge you to read through my stories under my profile name and have better understanding about how it unfolded.
Now i am still struggling emotionally base on the problem am having with my wife, the disloyal, cheating and dishonesty from her ever since she got the job and get an accommodation in the barrack.
She has been a complete different person entirely and still surprise how she turned to be who she is now. well i have decided to divorce her and sent her away because she had caused me enough pains emotionally which am yet to heal from, my peace of mind and mental health is at stake and dont want to run mad because of a woman. I dont think i deserve that. .
My advice to single men and women planning to settle down soon should be very careful with the person they want to marry and know the person very well cos people do change alot when circumstances struck.
That man or woman you are so in love with now might turn out to be a beast when you later end up getting married. Marriage is a very difficult journey.
Now i and my wife are separated living apart but my two daughters are still leaving with me and with the help of my aged mom and sister, they are taking care of them and doing well.
Now am kinda confuse whether i should let the kids go stay with their mother or they should stay with me. Though she is not dragging custody with me but I realize the kids staying with me for now gives me that emotional strength and doesn’t make me feel lonely, but if i take them to their mom, i might start missing them and loneliness and depression may strike being that i will be living alone.
I just want to get advice from divorced or separated men or women and even married and single here how they handle the custody part of their kids when their marriage ended, is it easy as a man to raise two girls age 5 and 6yrs and what are the issues relating to these.
As i said, i have a mom and aunt that can look after them very well and all i have to do is provide for them all they will be needing physically and financially, but i just what to be sure if am taking the right decision and wont regret taking their full custody.
pls anyone with useful advice should drop here cos am in a dilemma right now and want to get solution to my issues.
Pls sorry for the typo errors, am writing this with emotions scattered.